9/17/2010

In the words of the Lady herself: I was BORN THIS WAY

Many people think being gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender or transsexual is a choice or a lifestyle. Well, I honestly don't remember being given the choice or waking up one day and thinking "Hmm, I think I'll become a "freak" in the eyes of society and suffer the rest of my life". Nope, doesn't ring a bell. What does ring a bell however, is being different from all the other little girls as a child. Never wanting "pink" things, loving going to get a haircut as short as possible, playing with the boys, preferring Hotwheels toy cars over Barbies. Now how do you explain that? You can't, it just is. Still think that was a choice? How about biological facts, like how my voice has always been deeper than most girls', or how I've got facial hair WITHOUT hormone treatment. How are those things a choice? I'm not trying to impose anything on anyone or convert anybody to anything. I'm simply saying I DID NOT CHOOSE to be transsexual, I DID NOT CHOOSE to be born in the wrong body. The only choice I made was to stand up for myself and not let anybody tell me I'm worth less than anybody else. That choice I do remember making.

Another more recent choice was to pursue my dream of being a comedian/actor with an ultimate goal of having my own show. Why? Many reasons, but one of the more important reasons is because I want to help others like me. If I can make it, I can use my voice to reach out and help. Someday, somehow, I know I'll make it, even if I have to wear a meat dress to get people to notice. Hopefully, it won't come to that but that is exactly why I feel inspired by Lady Gaga. She's very talented but she doesn't just sit back and enjoy the fame, she helps others through her music and her actions. I hope one day I could reach that point and inspire others to find their voice.

So again, in the words of the Lady herself: I WAS BORN THIS WAY.

Stay frosty.

2 comments:

  1. Loving your blog so far, fellow Little Monster! (: Don't listen to hate, rock on, Mel! <3
    And if you'd like updates on Gaga's music and other cool artists, I'd love love love for you to follow my music blog :D

    Kira xoxo

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  2. Great blog! Lady gaga is inspiring all of us to be who we were born to be, and not what makes society most comfortable. Good luck with your career. Hard work and determination will getcha there.

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